Friday, December 2, 2011

Mariah is 15 years old!

15 years ago my life changed in the most amazing way.  It was a Monday afternoon, December 2, 1996.  My beautiful Mariah entered the world at 7:04pm and warmed my heart instantly. 
What a journey it has been.  I am so blessed. 
I love being a mommy.  
I love you Mariah!  You will always be my "baby girl". 



Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Carter ~ Five Months

It seems crazy, but our little man is 5 months old already.  That's almost half of a year!  Feels like yesterday when I was anxiously awaiting his arrival.  Such a blessing.  This little man has stolen my heart.  One of the most fabulous things about him is that everyone says he looks just like me.  Aww, my guy.  ~LOVE YOU~

Carter has changed so much this past month.  He's trying to sit up on his own, but hasn't conquered the skill yet.  He watches us eat, turns when we call his name, hugs us, tries to kiss us with an open mouth against our cheeks, and... he rolls over!  The first time he rolled over he was about 4 months old.  Cory got to see it, but I was in the other room.  The second time he rolled over was at daycare so I had missed it again.  But, this weekend I finally got to see him roll.  And roll he did... over and over and over.  Now whenever I lay him on his back he instantly flips over to his tummy.  I managed to catch this roll over on video. 
 Man I love all the "firsts". 

Monday, November 21, 2011

Thanksgiving Horror Stories

I was browsing through yahoo stories and came across this.  The more I am reading these stories, the more I'm laughing out loud.  I sure hope none of these crazy things happen for any of us this Thanksgiving Holiday.  I'll have to say that after my daughter and my cooking mishaps this weekend... anything is possible. 

1) I made these amazing oatmeal cookies this weekend, but decided to ditch the raisins, cut back on the butter and add peanut butter for extra taste.  Well... lets just say they turned out like oatmeal-peanut-butter-hockey-pucks; however, I ate them. 

2) Mariah made banana bread and added an extra banana for extra moist flavor.  She put the bread in the oven and made the entire house smell delicious.  I opened the microwave, put in my coffee, warmed it up, opened it back up... and found a stick of butter that rotated around in front of my coffee.  Yup, she forgot to add the butter to the banana bread.  The bread turned out a bit rubbery, but we ate it - put our butter on the bread. 

3) Mariah made brownies for her friends at school.  She put the ingredients in, added a little extra Hershey's syrup for extra chocolate-y-ness... and because... she had mixed up the measurements on the oil and water.  They were like fluffy pieces of chocolate cake instead of brownies. 

Hopefully this is no indication of whats to come on Thanksgiving!

Thursday, November 17, 2011

I love My Husband

Cory is the best.  He puts up with so much.  I can really be a handful. 
The kids can really be a handful.  But, he loves us and he is our hero. 
 The soon-to-come-story-of-our-bed will explain even more how wonderful my dear husband is. 

Every morning we go through the same routine.  Cory and I wake up and get ready.  We get Mariah up so she can get ready.  Cory makes my coffee, gets my pump bag ready, wakes up both boys, gets them ready, and I continue to get myself ready.  Then we all meet in the kitchen shortly before leaving the house. 

Cory and I are morning people (most of the time), Mariah on the other hand is not.  However, we were all laughing yesterday morning because of my morning-happy-husband.  Mariah came out of the bathroom and was walking down the hallway to her room.  As she was walking she heard "ba-da-da-dum" she looked back towards our room, then kept walking.  She heard it again "ba-da-da-dum".  She chuckled and quickly walked to her room as she heard the rest of the song coming loudly from my bedroom "ba-da-da-dum, ba-da-da-dum, ba-da-da-dum... The Adams Family..."  Yup, Cory was in full song singing the Adams Family to the boys that morning.  Gave us a good laugh all morning long.  And to top it off, he stopped singing at one point, looked down at Carter and said "if you were a cookie, you'd be a chunka-chip".  :-) 
One of my favorite new lines and a possible new nick-name for our Carter Monkey, Chunka-Chip.

Love you Cory
xoxo

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Brotherly Love

There is something truly amazing about brothers. 
 Their love for one another isn't easily described with words. 
 Their bond is magical and melts my heart constantly.
Their need to be close to one another is precious.
 

 Their unspoken connection makes life that much more fabulous.

~Love~

Friday, November 4, 2011

4 Months

Happy 4 months, 1 week, and 3 days to our little Carter-Monkey! 

I would love to say that I am on top of things like some of my fabulous mom friends, but I can't.  There are no similar picture post for every month showing how my little monkey is growing (love those by the way to all my mommy-friends that are doing them).  Instead, just a couple random pics from the past month. 

Sleep: Yes, we are co-sleeping.  I know... shame on us... shouldn't be done... I know, I get it, but we love it.  Carter and I sleep so well when we are snuggled together.  Some say it's unsafe, but to me there couldn't be anything safer than mama bear protecting baby cub all night long.  We are careful.  No crazy blankets, he sleeps in a swaddle, no fluffy pillows, no sleeping by the edge.  Just tucked in gently under my arm with me facing him all night long.  Yeah, I might be getting a bit stiff, but it's worth it. 

A little morning snooze after getting unswaddled.  So content on mommy's pillow. 
 ~swoon~


So close... 


 Almost there...


I can taste it... oh wait, that's the blanket...



And one more for fun


Thursday, November 3, 2011

How Do We Shop?

Baby in the cart, purse in the cart, maybe room for a loaf of bread or gallon of milk...
so, where do the rest of the groceries go???


In my handsome little man's cart of course!

 

This is how we shop.


How do you shop?

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Trick Er Treat

CANDY! 
I love CANDY! 
Can you tell I'm on a sugar high right now?! 
I have been eating candy non-stop!  Went to the break room today to wash my water glass, dropped it in the sink, splashed water all over my entire face and outfit.  Geesh!  Better lay off the CANDY... I'm starting to get the shakes! 

My adorable munchkins all ready for treatin' on Halloween evening.
Carter slept through the adventure and snuggled up nicely with Giana's blanket. 
Thanks for letting him borrow it Giana. 
Look at all this candy!  SCORE!
And of course... I dressed up a little bit myself for my coworkers.
Happy Halloween!

Friday, October 28, 2011

Oak Trees, Mold, and Dust Mites

On Wednesday we took Ethan to an allergist for testing.  He hated the tests.  He screamed and shook and screamed... it was horrible.  He was terrified.  I don't think the tests hurt nearly as bad as he made it seem, but he was scared.  Cory and I were both there trying to calm him down the best that we could.  Heartbreaking, but I am glad we did it.

 The results were worth the trouble.  Turns out he does NOT have food allergies which we are very thankful for.  Instead he is allergic to oak trees, mold, and dust mites.  Dust mites are the worst because they are everywhere.  I enjoy a clean house though, but some times lack motivation.  Now, I have complete motivation.  This weekend we'll pick up pillow covers and a bed cover which should help eliminate dust mites.  We also moved our dogs outside over a month ago.  That is supposed to help a ton.  Dust mites populate in areas where people sleep and where dogs sleep. 

So, my question for my readers is: What products should I use for dusting?  When I cleared out all the toxic sprays for cleaning my house and switched to Method cleaning products and vinegar, I also switched to dry dusting with a microfiber towel.  Well, I read that dry dusting is 93% less effective with removing dust particles and getting rid of dust mites.  That is a huge percent!  So what type of toxin-free product do you suggest for dusting? 

Monday, October 24, 2011

Recipes for Cleaning

I changed this post a bit.  I found many recipes for laundry detergent and went with the one that uses 1 cup borax instead of 1/2 cup borax. 

I did it!  I made my own laundry detergent this weekend and it was super easy, fun, and made my kitchen smell really fresh!  Here is the recipe I used (taken from this website):

Homemade Laundry Detergent


Most homemade laundry detergent recipes out there contain the same ingredients:
1. 1 bar of Fels-Naptha soap
2. 1 cup of Washing Soda
3. ½ cup of Borax powder  1 cup Borax powder (cleans really well)

To make a powdered detergent, cut the soap into small pieces and then powder it in a food processor or blender (I use my Pampered Chef cheese grater and then put it in a food processor) . Mix this with the washing soda and borax. Use 1-2 tsps per load depending on the size of the load and the amount of soil.
Super cheap and super yummy smelling!  I've read that you can use different types of bar soaps instead of the fels-naptha if you prefer. 

The next recipe I'll try is for homemade dish detergent (from the same website):

Homemade Dishwasher Detergent


Ingredients
• 1 cup washing soda
• 1 cup borax powder
• ½ cup salt
• ½ cup citric acid

Mix all the ingredients together and store in a glass canning jar. Use one tablespoon per load. For best results, use white vinegar in the rinse dispenser.

Ethan helped me make the laundry detergent.
And... Cory is completely on board because its cheap and smells delicious.

Friday, October 21, 2011

Trying to Create a Healthier Household

I am not by any means completely naturalistic or holistic, but I would like to say that I am trying to do more of that little by little.  Recently I had a conversation with my family about trying our hardest to cut out fast food and soda.  This will be easy to do for Cory, Ethan, Carter, and myself, but Mariah may be a bigger challenge.  She is able to buy and drink whatever she wants while at school.  They have a full cafeteria that is open the entire day.  The kids can stop in there between classes and fill up on snacks, soda, artificial juices, something called a milk shake that is just really thick milk loaded with sugar, cappuccinos, the list goes on.  So, since I can't completely control what she eats while at school, I can control what I buy for home meals and snacks. 

Getting away from processed foods sounds like a great idea; however, its close to impossible.  Just about everything we buy is processed or highly sprayed with chemicals.  We eat all these chemicals on a daily basis and then complain about our increase in allergies and other health issues.  Then we go to the doctor for medicine to try to balance the imbalance in our bodies.  As easy as that sounds... it is not healthy at all.  I would like to think that by making a couple little changes with cutting out fast food, soda, and the highly processed foods... that maybe, just maybe, I can make a difference in my families health.   

Another harsh thing that we do to our bodies is surround them with cleaning chemicals, toxins, and pesticides.  This is in addition to the world of pollution around us.  While I can't control the environment, I can control what comes in to our home.  I can do my best to reduce the use of chemicals and toxins in our home.  I have found a million ways to use white distilled vinegar, apple cider vinegar, and baking soda for all of our household needs.  I am yet to try all these ways; however, the fact that my husband hates the smell of vinegar might be a bit of a road block.  Hopefully he'll understand the benefit and jump on board soon. 

This article alone was enough to make me understand the benefit: http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2011/04/11/earlyshow/health/main20052745.shtml
"This is so important. Unfortunately, the statistics are pretty scary when it comes to childhood obesity. Today's generation of kids may be the first to not outlive their parents, because we're seeing diseases in kids that we normally see in adults," Sass says. "From type 2 diabetes to high blood pressure and even heart disease. In 1976, five percent of children in the U.S. qualified as obese. Today it's 20 percent, or one-in-five kids.

I don't want to obsess over this like a fad diet, but instead I want to make some lifestyle changes with hopes that my children will carry these lifestyle changes with them.  My mom made everything homemade when we were kids.  We used cloth diapers, bought local honey, grew most of our own vegetables, made apple pies from hand picked apples from trees that weren't sprayed with chemicals.  We rarely ate fast food, never had soda in the house, and ate a lot of farm fresh meat and eggs.  So, I grew up this way, but some where in the busy world and busy way of life, I lost a lot of those values.  The harm didn't affect me so I didn't think about my poor choices.  Now I have a three year old son with possible allergies, and a rash that makes him itch like crazy.  He takes allergy medicine daily and uses a steroid cream to reduce the dry itchy skin.  I don't want this for him.  He's only three and shouldn't be filled with medicine.  I don't want Carter to have these issues either.  Luckily for Mariah I didn't use a pesticide in the house every three months, I didn't feed her as much fast food and processed foods, and I didn't let her drink soda until junior high. 

Life gets busy, we forget, and we pick the easy road.  Ads are confusing, misleading, and truly makes all the bad foods look amazingly delicious. 

My next step will be considering cancelling my pesticide contract... this will be the hardest change for me.  I hate bugs.  Terrified of bugs.  Want nothing to do with bugs and spiders and centipedes.  However, I love my family and their health is more important.  Maybe allowing pesticides outside my home and not inside will be my first step. 

The other thing I want to do more for fun than anything is to make my own laundry soap.  It's pretty natural, it's fun, it smells good (I've been told), it's extremely cheap, and it's very gentle on clothes and skin.  These are a lot of changes at once and I'll send my family in to shock if I make them all instantly.  So, I'll slowly make a couple of these changes and hopefully my family will find it fun and jump on board. 

Last night we had raw carrots for dinner along with mac-n-cheese (yup, highly processed - I'm not perfect or crazy) and strip steak with tortillas.  The big change was introducing the raw carrots in to the meal instead of canned vegetables.  We loved eating the big raw carrots and the best part was teaching Ethan how to peal them.  He LOVED it.  He couldn't stop talking about how mommy taught him how to peal a carrot. 
I love seeing him so proud to learn. 




Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Family Pictures

I've finally uploaded all of the pictures from our family photo shoot
with Lindsay McGowan Photography

Click on the following link to see them: Our Family Pictures 2011



Monday, October 10, 2011

Homecoming 2011

Mariah went to Homecoming this past weekend with her friends Cameron, Paige, and Martin.  The four of them were a blast to photograph.  We took a couple pictures at Paige's house, then brought them to our house for dinner, then caught a couple more pictures in our yard. 


The girls posing like Charlie's Angels

The guys lookin' cool 
 
My beautiful daughter

 The group

Cameron... that's a pretty crazy smile

So pretty

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Week and a Half

I have been back to work for a week and a half now.  There are some nice things about it like the adult interaction, the "me" time, and of course the money.  BUT, there are the not so nice things about it like getting all three kids in to the vehicle and pulling out of the driveway by 6:50am.  Dropping the kids off at two different locations.  Carrying lunch boxes, a car seat with infant, jackets, keys, a blanket, and holding the hand of my toddler all while trying to enter a building at 7:00am.  Taking Ethan to the breakfast room at daycare and getting him settle in and ready to eat while saying good-bye to him and giving him kisses... all while he's looking at me with his puppy dog eyes and asking me why I have to leave and why he has to stay there.  Dropping off Carter in the infant room and unloading all of his stuff in to the correct spots, telling the teachers how he slept and when he ate last, and catch them up on anything else they might need to know, then kissing my little man good-bye and heading out the door all by myself.  Doing all of this within 10-15 minutes every morning.  Then climbing in to my car and feeling my heart sink in to my chest as I am telling myself that this is good.  I can do this. 

In all reality... it bites.

Sunday, September 25, 2011

Family Photos 2011

This weekend not only did I get to spend some much needed time with a close friend, I also got some great photo memories out of it.  My friend Lindsay came to town and took our family pictures on her mom and dad's beautifully wooded property.  We managed to sneak in the pictures between all the rain storms on Saturday.  She did an amazing job!  Below are some of my favorites. 
Click here to go to Lindsay's blog and view a couple more pictures. 


 

and one in color ;-)


Carter: 3 Months

Happy 3 months Carter! Such a big guy already! You are the most amazing baby. So calm and relaxed, you sleep through the night, you love to smile and giggle. You are amazing! We love you lots, xoxo!

Today our little Carter Oliver is 14.4 pounds and 24 inches.  He is growing like crazy!  Perfect little man.

I did it!

I've managed to get up every morning, get out of the house on time, and make it to work every day this week!  I thought for sure I'd go in to denial by Wednesday or Thursday and refuse to leave the house, but I did it.  I so badly wanted to be home with my kids every day this week, but I did it.  That's huge.

Ethan and Carter have helped to make the transition back to work easier.  They both had a nice time at Grandma Sandy and Grandpa Harry's house on M, W, F this week. They are also enjoying their new daycare.  Ethan went on a field trip on Thursday and got to ride on a BIG YELLOW SCHOOL BUS for the first time!  He went to an apple orchard and learned how to pick apples.  "Mom, you lift and twist, lift and twist."

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

I Can Do This...

...my hearts not in it, but I can do it. 

Coming back to work after maternity is hard.  It's isn't fair and it's hard.  There is nothing I want more than to spend the day with my kids.  This isn't something that parents get to do forever because kids grow up.  I get that, I have a teenager.  But, we should be able to be with them all the time until they grow up.  Until they head off to kindergarten on the big yellow bus.  I should be at home taking care of them, teaching them, feeding them, playing with them.  I should be there with them until they grow up.  My heart is there with them, but unfortunately I am not. 

I can do this.  I can stay strong.  I know my kids are in good hands.  After a while they will even start to have a lot of fun and meet new friends.  They will come home with stories that will warm my heart. 

On Monday the boys played with Grandma Sandy and Grandpa Harry.  Here we are getting ready to leave the house the first morning. 


On Tuesday they started at their new daycare. Here we were getting ready to leave the second day. 

Sunday, September 18, 2011

ONE

Sunday, September 18, 2011

Ok, maternity leave is over.
Carter was baptized today.
Back to reality tomorrow morning.

Yes, this truly was THE BEST SUMMER. EVER.

Extremely grateful.

Saturday, September 17, 2011

TWO

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Getting ready for Carter's baptism tomorrow!